I don't have a rant or anything today, but I did want to explain my current and future lack of "Blogging".
I've just started a new job and I'm getting used to working "normal people" hours.
Going from the graveyard shift to a 9am shift is taking it's toll on my circadian cycle.
Drood's Rants and Thoughts
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Friday, March 11, 2011
First rant, here we go.
This is going to be my first actual post, not so much of a rant per se...but it's something that's definitely been bugging me.
I've just about had it with girls taking words/actions the wrong way.
It doesn't help the fact that I'm already horrible with speaking, and I always have the tendency to say things I don't mean. My method is to say something, and explain why I don't feel that way.
Let's put it in a diagram: Part A is the offense part. Part B is where I explain why that's NOT what I think.
Conversation:
Me: -Part A-
Girl: *interrupting* -gets offended and shuts out reason and logic at this point-
Me: -...Part B...-
Girl: -assumes I'm "just saying that" because I noticed how bad it hurt her feelings-
This is my problem: This girl has known me for nearly four years. She knows how I work, and she knows I have this issue with words. Yet lately she's been taking offense to everything I say and I'm constantly feeling the need to apologize.
I'm walking on eggshells with her.
Any ideas?
I've just about had it with girls taking words/actions the wrong way.
It doesn't help the fact that I'm already horrible with speaking, and I always have the tendency to say things I don't mean. My method is to say something, and explain why I don't feel that way.
Let's put it in a diagram: Part A is the offense part. Part B is where I explain why that's NOT what I think.
Conversation:
Me: -Part A-
Girl: *interrupting* -gets offended and shuts out reason and logic at this point-
Me: -...Part B...-
Girl: -assumes I'm "just saying that" because I noticed how bad it hurt her feelings-
This is my problem: This girl has known me for nearly four years. She knows how I work, and she knows I have this issue with words. Yet lately she's been taking offense to everything I say and I'm constantly feeling the need to apologize.
I'm walking on eggshells with her.
Any ideas?
So.
This is just a placeholder until I get more time to figure this whole thing out.
I plan on making this Blog a weekly/bi-weekly (depending on my mood) medium for my rants and raves.
Everyone I've known personally tend to enjoy listening to me get on a soap-box about something, and have even recorded such events.
So I hope this turns out to be something I stick with.
I plan on making this Blog a weekly/bi-weekly (depending on my mood) medium for my rants and raves.
Everyone I've known personally tend to enjoy listening to me get on a soap-box about something, and have even recorded such events.
So I hope this turns out to be something I stick with.
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